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Dear Pastor,

Why are some churches against oral sex? I love doing oral sex. I would have sex with my identical twin sister's husband. I know that he won't have sex with me. My identical twin sister offered $10,000 to my child's father to have sex with her unknown to me in 2004. I forgave her, but I am not going to take back my son's father because he has no mind of his own.

I used to live in St Mary. When I was living there, I was living with my cousin and a woman. They only fed my brother, but not me. The woman and my cousin beat me up, and when I couldn't take it anymore, I left the area. The people in St Mary are crazy over money.

R.

Dear R.,

The matter of oral sex is a very personal affair. I don't know of any church that has a policy for or against oral sex. There are ministers and counsellors who do not condemn or advocate it. It is solely up to the couples. From what you have written, you enjoy oral sex. That is your business.

You have declared that your

sister paid your child's father $10,000 to have sex with her. And I suppose in retaliation, you would have sex with your sister's husband, but he wouldn't stoop to doing so. Perhaps his moral standards are higher than yours. And if your twin sister paid an in-law to have sex with her, both of you have very low morals and you should not be proud of that.

It seems to me that you need professional help. You are a confused young woman. You are not settled. You have much hatred inside because you feel that you were not treated well when you were growing up. I suggest therefore that you call a family counsellor and ask him/her to meet with you.

Pastor