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Dear Pastor,

I am 31 years old and my wife is 33. I got myself into a little problem and I don't know how to get out of it.

So I have decided to write to you and ask for advice. My wife has a sister who is 28 years old. She came to spend a weekend with us and I lost my senses and had sex with her. It was not something planned; we were sitting together on the couch while my wife had gone to a meeting. This girl had on shorts and I found myself admiring her. I drew close to her and started to play with her legs. I noticed that she did not object, so I asked her if she liked what I was doing and she said that she was not stopping me.

So I asked her, "Do you have a boyfriend?" and she said yes. Then I asked her when last she had sex and she told me it had been a long time. I never had that kind of conversation with her before, but her answer encouraged me and I got down on my knees before her and started to play with her breasts. When I told her that I would like to have sex with her, she did not object. After having sex with her, I felt that I had taken advantage of an innocent country girl, because she lived in the country and she doesn't have much exposure.

She went back to the country the following Monday morning, but now she has texted me to say that she has missed her period. I don't know what to do or say about the situation. I know my wife will never forgive me for what I have done. Kindly give me your advice.

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Dear Writer,

You are a wicked man. Your wife trusted you with her sister while she went to a meeting, and you could not control yourself.

You saw by her reaction that she was naive and you took advantage of her naivety. You are a bad man and I hope that you would admit that you had sex with her and impregnated her. Encourage the young lady to go to the doctor, and if she is indeed pregnant, just as you got down on your knees and begged your sister-in-law for sex, get down on your knees and beg your wife to forgive you for what you have done. Ask her to forgive her sister, also.

Please do not encourage this girl to do an abortion. Let me hear from you again.

Pastor