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Dear Pastor,

This is the first time I am writing to you, but I am a regular reader of your column and I listen to your show every night.

It was through your show that I got a husband. I met this man after listening to him on your show and I called him. I knew that I was taking a risk. I went to see him at his workplace and I had somebody watching to see if everything would go right. I don't have any regrets in meeting this man. We went out together for about a year.

I wasn't sure that he would marry me because I had three children for three different men, and the children were living with me. He got to meet them and he told me we could all live together. My sons loved him because he does mechanical work and they like cars, so they were always with him in the yard working on cars. My daughter who is the oldest likes him too. He said that my daughter resembles his mother.

When I was getting married to this man, his relatives discouraged him because I had three children and he did not have any. I have not done anything to stop myself from getting pregnant again. I wish I can have a child for this man. I have been encouraging him to go to the doctor to check himself out. He said he is not interested. He has claimed my three children to be his since we got married. He has added my name to his house title. He is 55 years old, but he does not look his age. He eats well and he goes to the gym once per week. He is as strong as a lion, and please don't consider me rude, but he does more than one round whenever we have sex.

One of his sisters is very close to him, but because of the way they discouraged him from marrying me, he hasn't even told her that he has put my name on his house title. I don't think that this man can get any woman pregnant and that is the reason why he is not interested in going to see a doctor. We have never used protection; there is no need for it. But when I started to visit his house, he had packs of condoms and he told me he was using them to protect himself from disease because he used to pay girls to have sex with him, but he did not live with any of them. They all had to come to his house; he did not believe in going on the street.

So your radio programme has helped me to get a husband and a very good one too. I listen to your show every night; I don't like to miss it. I also have my favourite callers.

K.B.

Dear K.B.,

You are indeed a very fortunate woman. You should be happy that you have a man who seems to be true to you.

He has made you very happy. He is a good family man. I am happy to know that your children, especially your boys, love and respect him. It is not very often that a man would marry a woman who has had children who are not his, and yet add that woman's name to his house title. Girl, you are fortunate and I hope that you would be true to him.

This man is truly in love with you. I know that to be true because although his relatives tried to discourage him from marrying you, he did not listen to them. He did what he felt was right. Not many men can do what you say this man does to you in bed. You must be happy about his ability and his performance. He is taking care of you; make sure you take care of him.

Pastor