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Dear Pastor,

I am a 23-year-old man and I am working in a business that is run by a woman. I do any type of work that she asks.

She sends me to the bank to lodge and withdraw money. I have been working with her for two years. This woman is in her 40s and she is always buying me gifts. She knows that I have a girlfriend, but she does not want to hear me talk about her. She asked me one day how is it I have a girlfriend and she cannot find a good man.

One day she called me into her office and told me that if I don't let her know that I love her, she is going to be very vexed with me. I told her that I love her as my boss. She is always looking at my pants front. She said that it seems as if I have a big penis and she wants to see it. I told her that she could be my mother and it would be disrespectful for me to zip down my pants and take out my penis before her. She came from behind her desk and fondled me. This woman has a daughter who is my age and is in college. She said that whatever we talk about is between us, and when I go back on the road, I must buy a pack of condoms so that we can use them. I told her that I never had sex with a big woman and she said she would be the first.

One of the girls at the company asked me, "What do 'Miss So-and-So and you have to talk about so much?" and why I am always in her office. I told her that I only go into her office when I am called. Every week she puts extra money into my envelope. I am wondering if I should leave this job because I am afraid to get involved with her. Every day she asks me if I do not love her and if I am not eager to have sex with her. Sometimes she wears very short skirts and when she sits, I can see between her legs. I know that she is trying to tempt me.

As a father, I would like you to tell me what to do.

P.D.

Dear P.D.,

I know that this woman is very good to you, but she has a motive and that is, to get you to go to bed with her.

As I read your letter, I am reminded of a woman who came to see me. She was the head of a business and she fell in love with one of the men. She was a married woman, but she still carried on an affair with her male employee. Sometimes during working hours, she would leave and go out with the young man and have sex with him.

One day her husband came to the workplace and asked for her and naturally, she was not there. He asked for the man with whom she was having the affair and he wasn't there, either. That man drove to a certain place and saw his wife's car. He parked his vehicle and did not leave until his wife and the young man came out. When they came out and saw him, he drove away and went back to the business place. To cut a long story short, he divorced his wife. I tell you the truth, that man could have killed his wife or the young man.

You have your girlfriend - stay with her. It is good to get extra money every week, but don't allow this woman to capture you. Run from her.

Pastor